Holidays are times for Family reunions. Our beautiful country is vast and family members often live hundreds of miles away from each other. Are you inviting your Mom and Dad to your home for Christmas or have you been invited to their place? In case you are expecting your Senior loved one in your home, here are some points to consider before your Mom or Dad gets behind the wheel of their beloved older Cadillac.
Are Mom and Dad’s Driving Abilities Declining?
This is an important question to consider. We all want to be independent and driving is part of our independence. However, there comes a time when driving longer distances, presents more risks than potential benefits. During your last visit with your parents, have you observed any of the herein-below signs that may indicate that Mom or Dad’s driving skills are declining?
• scratches or dents on your parent’s car or garage door
• Mom does not follow all traffic signs and signals
• Dad, while driving, seems to be distracted
• Mom sometimes confuses gas and brake pedals
• Dad does not judge distances well
• Mom becomes easily irritated and aggressive while driving
• Dad drives either too fast or too slow
• Mom gets lost even in areas she used to know very well
• Dad cannot turn his head around to check the rear view while backing up
• Mom does not see well in her current glasses and is hard of hearing
Mom’s Health and Medications Might Affect her Driving
Most medications, both prescription and over-the-counter, can cause drowsiness, slower reaction, confusion. Check if your Mom’s medications contain any warnings of this nature. Please keep in mind that if Mom or Dad show early signs of dementia, they may not be self-aware that they pose a risk to themselves and others while driving .
Winter Weather Conditions are Often Unpredictable
If Mom’s declining driving abilities along with side-effects of her medications are not troublesome enough, please keep in mind that often uncooperative winter conditions will compound and complicate Holiday driving.
In 2013, there were 5,671 people 65 and older killed, and an estimated 222,000 injured, in motor vehicle traffic crashes. Seniors made up 17 percent of all traffic fatalities and 10 percent of all people injured in traffic accidents during the year .
Safety Should Always Be a Top Priority
Holidays and Family reunions will be best enjoyed and truly festive when everyone is safe. Safety of our loved ones should always be the number one priority. If you or your Mom’s Caregiver observe the signs and symptoms described above, it may be safer to arrange for a Caregiver to drive her to your Christmas party. It is not too late to make those assessments and arrangements.
With Love for the Elderly…
1. National Institute on Aging, June 2011. Older Drivers.
2. National Highway Traffic Safety Administration.Traffic Safety Facts 2013: Older Population.Rev. November 2015.
Dear Delia, I can’t thank you enough for your heart-felt care and devotion to providing the best care you can provide for all your clients and their families. Your personal help to make sure my mom was properly cared for meant more than words can express. You listened….you cared… and you served to the best of your ability. What more could anyone ask for? I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Bless You.
Karen P. of Newtown, Connecticut